1) LET GO OF THE NEED TO IMPRESS OTHERS
If you’re a human being, chances are you care about what other people think of you. After all – we are naturally social creatures! But if you find yourself spending too much of your time, money or energy trying to impress other people and get their approval, you’re not being true to YOU.
There’s no need to try and be something you’re not, because who you are right now is FABULOUS! Focus instead on living the most authentic version of yourself. When you fully embrace who you are and share it with others, you’ll find that people will appreciate how REAL you are and will flock to you effortlessly.
2) LET GO OF THE NEED TO BE RIGHT
Sometimes when we feel we’ve been mistreated or misunderstood by someone, we can get caught up into wanting that person to admit they’ve wronged us. And we want an apology! Or at least acknowledgement that we are right and they’re wrong.
The problem is that not all human beings see things from the same perspective. In your world, you’re right… but in their world, so are they. There are definitely times where an apology is necessary. But most other times, rather than allowing feelings of negativity to take root inside you and start spilling over into other areas of your life, it may be best to ask yourself this:
“Do I want to be right? Or do I want to be happy?”
Often it’s just our ego that keeps us holding on to past resentments and upsets. Instead, consider letting go of the desire to be right and you’ll find you’ll instantly restore happiness and contentment in your life.
3) LET GO OF THE DESIRE TO GOSSIP
I’ve heard it said that gossip is just a cheap way to make yourself feel good, and I have to agree. We all know that gossiping about other people is… well, not so good. But when the people around you are doing it, it can be easy to slip into doing it, too! Consider though that the quality of your life depends on the quality of the conversations you have.
If you want to live a more fulfilling life, start by embracing the power of your word. Your voice is powerful! And what you have to say makes a difference. Be committed to having more positive conversations about things that matter… not people… and you’ll be surprised how quickly you’ll brighten your outlook on life.
4) LET GO OF THE PAST
It’s easy to dwell on the past, especially when the future is so unknown! Looking to the past can feel safe… we know what has happened and we know what we could do to change things… if only we had the chance. The truth is, though, that you never will have the chance to change the past. Not unless scientists finally invent a time machine.
Your past has served its purpose – it’s brought you to the place you are today and made you the person you are now. And who you are right now is absolutely perfect. Be grateful for your experiences, but know that NOW is all you have. So do your best to enjoy each moment. Give yourself the gift of being present!
To your everlasting happiness . . .
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Tana is an internationally-recognized reality star, American business woman, professional speaker, author, radio talk show host, and business coach. She attracted national attention for her appearance on NBC’s “The Apprentice” with Donald Trump. Tana was also known as a finalist in another hit reality show “Fear Factor”, as well as the spokesperson for numerous products.
Today Tana is seizing opportunities and sharing her tips on how to succeed in business and in life as an accomplished professional speaker who educates, motivates, and inspires people to take immediate action through her highly energetic presentations. She gets employees fired up to go back to work and dig deeper for greater results professional and personal results. To learn more, visit her website at Hey Tana (www.heytana.com). Connect with her at us.linkedin.com/in/tanagoertz/.
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